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Leaders are good followers first!

Generally speaking followers are critised, because it is said they have no personality, they follow others, they do not think and act by themselves, they behave like lemmings.

If you wish to become a leader you must think for yourself, act on your own, that is for sure, nevertheless you have to learn from mentors or leaders first. Everyone has to learn before acting (have a look at this article Learn Do Teach).

Everybody on planet earth learns first, whatever field it may be we have to learn first which means in a nutshell be a follower in the first place.

What do children do?

They duplicate what their parents teach them to do, first and foremost, the language, children learn their mother tongue by duplication, therefore by following suit.

What do people do at school?

They duplicate what they learn, knowledge is acquired by following suit your teachers, your mentors, your professors and so on and so forth during your life every time you do want to take up a new activity.

What do people do when they learn their job?

They learn by following suit too, you learn first, you are an apprentice first before mastering your occupation.

As a rule of thumb we always follow our “teachers” before doing something. As a matter of fact we all do that without a shadow of a doubt in any realm (job, politics, music, art, sport…).

The best thing to do in order to be a leader and become successful is to be a good follower first.

Listening more is the key, the gist is to reach your goal and your objective, no matter how long it takes.

First and foremost follow your teacher, your mentor, learn as much as you can, consistently. Model them, afterwards take action and implement what you have learnt on a regular basis.

Becoming a leader may take time, be a broad-minded follower is the first stage.

To help you achieve that goal, the concept you have to know is called the teach ability index :

Two steps, the first one is your willingness to learn, if you do not have a high willingness to learn it stands for that your willpower to learn is weak. Thereby you are not a good follower because you can be probably interested in reaching your goal but not committed.

Commitment is the key and the stepping stone of any success and achievement.

The second step is your willingness to accept change, which stands for in short that you have to do things differently. If your willingness to accept change is low you are going to learn next to nothing, you are not a perfect follower, thus it is impossible to become a good leader.

If you want to learn more about the teach ability index concept, take a glance at this article here.

Each leader in any industry learns before applying what he has learnt, they stalk their objective obsessivly.

Napoleon Hill applied what he had learnt from Andrew Carnegie, he followed his mentor first and became a leader later on. Throughout history you can come up with countless examples which validates this theory.

The bottom line is the best leaders in the world have been good followers first.

You want to succeed in any endeavour, you do want to become a leader, be a good follower first. Choose your mentor and learn from him or her, you will acquire the skills, the attitude of that leader and sooner or later you will be a leader too.

Implement this method which truly does work, there is no shortcut, you are henceforth on the right track.

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“Think and grow rich”

This is the magical formula.

Doesn’t that sound mighty?

What’s the catch?

It sounds to good to be true, I am not going to promise that I will make you a millionaire overnight, nonetheless your thinking will make you rich or not.

Napoleon Hill who wrote the book “Think and grow rich” brings up the topic of wealth and explains throughout his work how to become a millionaire. He claims and proves that it is how you think and how you make your brain work which determine your result in life.

First and foremost you must feed your brain with good stuff, one the most efficient techniques turns out to be Auto-Suggestion. Your inner self-talk must be built with positive statements, suggestions which will empower you and influence your subconscious mind.

« It’s Not The Money, It’s The Person You Become »

In his book “Think and grow rich”, Napoleon Hill explains the 13 principles you have to follow as a way of being rich. This proven method truly does work and I encourage you all to implement it, you will have tremendous outcome, that’s for sure.

Here is the money-making secret in 13 principles:

- Desire

- Faith

- Auto-Suggestion

- Specialized knowledge

- Imagination

- Organized planning

- Decision

- Persistence

- Power of the Master Mind

- The mystery of sex transmutation

- The subconscious mind

- The brain

- The sixth sense

Desire: you have to want it. First of all you must have a burning desire, which drives you towards your success, you crave for reaching your objective.

Faith: you must believe in your project and believe that you are bound to achieve your goal. « Faith is to believe what you do not see, the reward of this faith is to see what you believe ».

Auto-Suggestion: use affirmations to reach your goal. Feed your mind to make sure that your subconscious mind will be nourished in a positive way. There is a bond between the conscious mind and the unconscious mind, repetition is the key.

Specialized knowledge: gain experiences and continue learning. You must acquire specialized knowledge in your domain, be proficient in your field.

Imagination: come up with ideas and visualise your success. Imagination will enable you to be creative, it is the source, the fuel, limitless and it will entitle you to overcome any pitfalls.

Organized planning: take action. Organized planning will allow you to be on the right track, without a map you will end up somewhere else.

Decision: defeat procrastination with decisiveness. Without it you do nothing, go for it.

Persistence: do not stop until you get what you want. In a nutshell never give up to reach your goal.

Power of the Master Mind: surround yourself with the best.

The mystery of sex transmutation: choose a compatible partner.

The subconscious mind: master positivity and dismiss negative emotions.

The brain: associate with other smart people and learn from them.

The sixth sense: trust your gut.

If you follow these stages consistently with a total commitment you cannot fail.

First you must be convinced that your mind and your thinking are the keystone of any success, remind you that quote « if you think you can or if you think you can’t either way you’re right ». Your belief system makes you succeed or fail.

Another significant element in order to become rich contrary to widespread opinion, it is not how hard you work but how SMART you work.

In his book “Think and grow rich” Napoleon Hill shows that it is not “work hard and grow rich” but THINK and grow rich, think in a good way and become rich, this is the real process.

Throughout history and all around us there are countless examples where those who have worked the most are not necessary those who have achieved the greatest wealth.

Change your beliefs first, they are the roots of any achievement, take a glance at this article « change your thoughts and you will change your life ».

Do it and your life will never be the same.

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To answer this question, we have to study the secrets of the humain brain -neuroscience- and how it works in our daily life.

Losing weight, stop smoking, taking action… anything we can have as a goal, represent our first step.

You have determined your goal, therefore you know your objective, your destination, but consciously.

You should be aware too that in order to reach your destination, you need to change your daily grind. For example if you want to lose weight you must change your way of eating, less junk food, drink more water, working out and so on and so forth, otherwise nothing will occur.

Nevertheless why is it so hard to change your habits then?

The problem is, even though you do know consciously what you should be doing, it’s hard to do it because you have been used to acting in the same way for too long, your bad habits are ingrained in yourself.

You have been doing the same actions for so long that is very hard to change, it is why it so difficult to lose weight, stop smoking, change your life, take up new skill, literally everything.

Either you procrastinate or you do not take action whatsoever which is pretty much the same by the way. On second thoughts you do nothing.

What usually happens to everyone actually?

People use their will, their longing at their conscious level, with a great motivation moreover. Nonetheless your habits are hidden in your subconsciuous mind, and you have striven to use your conscious mind to fight fiercely your subconscious habits.

It may work in the first place but later on not at all.

Then you have probably noticed that in the beginning you make some changes, but shortly afterwards you go back to square one.

It is hard to carry on with new habits because you get out of your comfort zone, you have to make some efforts, and unfortunately after more or less a short period of time it is much easier to go back to your old habits, you have dramatically given up then.

You do not like the result but you feel comfortable again.

The reality shows that it is what happens in the vast majority of cases.

Why is your willpower not strong enough to change your habits and reach your goal?

At the beginning that was your goal however, it was your desire, what you really did want.

Did you really want that outcome?

Are you fulfilled and happy with where you are right now? Certainly not!

Why has it not worked then ?

Here is the explanation, neuroscientists call this mental process, how your brain functions, “The habit loop”.

You need so as to overcome this hurdle to feed your subconscious mind consistently, that means you must feed your mind long enough to make sure that the new information will take place and take over the old paradigm.

It is the only effective and proven method which trully does work.

Guess what hypnosis does?

It bypasses the conscious mind in order to feed and deliver suggestions to the subconscious mind to make behaviours, demeanours, bad habits, addictions, change. It is by the way more and more used and widespread throughout the world, even in hospitals.

Scientists claim that we never change things by fighting the existing reality, to change something build a new model that makes the exixting model obsolete.

You have to sow in your subconscious mind first to reap later in your visible world.

Here is a chart which outlines how the mind works:

The conscious mind (the top half of the head) is the Thinking Mind and the subconscious mind (the bottom half of the head) is the Conditioned Mind which causes your Results (R).

So, it looks like this:

Thoughts → Feelings → Actions → Results

« There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge »             Napoleon Hill

There are several methods to feed your subconscious mind: hypnosis, visualisation, incantation, auto-suggestion, reading consistently, listening to audios…

The key is to do so repeatedly.

To change your habits, first work on you subconscious mind, second be surrounded by people who are very supportive, who will back you up no matter what.

When people want to change their habits, lose weight, stop drinking for instance, there are some supportive groups like Weight Watchers, Alcoholics Anonymous which are very helpful because they stand by you. It works very effectively to wipe out old habits.

Take a glance at this article « The power of environment in order to reach your goal  »

There is no secret, if you want to change your life you have to make some changes, if you continue to do the same actions and expecting a different result nothing will change.

Successful people are willing to DO what makes them feel uncomfortable in the interest of growth.

Nothing will change until you do.

Take action then!

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“If you think you can or if you think you can’t either way you’re right” that’s an awesome quote by Henry Ford

Clearly understand that the only limitations you will ever have are the limitations you impose upon yourself. You truly do have infinite potential.

The power of your mind will walk you through success or failure, what you think you become. If you deeply believe you can do anything you want or if you deeply believe you cannot do it, you are right on both sides, and that is what is going to happen to you.

You create your future with your thoughts, you create your own reality.

Whatever you want you can get it.

“yes we can” does it ring a bell with you? (Obama campaign)

How does it work?

In any realm of your existence you are going to convince yourself if you can or if you cannot do something. Your education, your culture, your backgrounds, your friends, your accointances, influence your thoughts.

Therefore according to your thoughts, your self-talk will tell you, I can do it or not, and either way you are right.

Thereby if you think you can, all your energy, all your motivation, make you become successful, you are going to tap into your full potential. You yearn to reach your goal, you know you can so at the end of the day you will be succeeding.

On the other hand if you think you cannot you are right too, because you will not take massive action, you will not believe in yourself, you are more likely to forego, your full inner potential will be untapped and you will dramatically fail.

What is the solution?

Change your thoughts and you will change your life (have a look at this article). Be convinced that you CAN do, reach, have, be, whatever you want in your existence. All you need to do is to change your thoughts first and apply some strategies which will show you the right path.

As long as you feed your mind in the right way, with positive things, ideas, resources, habits, your self-confidence and self-esteem will enhance, and you will unleash your power within.

When you know and follow the recipe it is much easier to create your dish, you know the ingredients, you know the way of doing it, success becomes easier. Therefore, you know that you must master your thoughts first.

These articles about self-development have been created for you, you will find out tips, concepts, success principles in order to be successful in any area of your life.

I encourage you to reprogram your mind and to do so you must decide to do it first.

Here is the strategy you have to apply

• decide first that you do want to change
  

• have a plan to do it and follow through

• reprogramm your mind thanks to daily audio daily reading

• change your limiting beliefs with self-help books

• follow a mentor, someone who already has what you want

• take massive action

• do it consistently and never give up

It is worth mentioning that the best sportsman and athlete around the world do that, they implement this strategy to step up their abilities, to win any tournament or any competition.

As the common saying goes in self-development:

« success leaves clues » and « do what they do and you have what they have »

Now you have no excuse, you can if you think you can, you know the plan, do it thoroughly, and everything is going to change. A crowd of people has already changed their fate by doing and following this plan, it trully does works.

If you do that, I guarantee you great results, that is how it works for everyone. You will have reprogramed you mind and you will end up thinking most of the time  now “I can”.

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                                                            Napoleon Hill

« Your wish is your command » the key to success, what is the process? This process is taught by the law of attraction.

Napoleon Hill learnt techniques and secrets in order to achieve any goal in life and wrote several books in which he unveiled stategies and secrets. These secrets had not been revealed to the general public until he published books. One of these books I highly recommend is “Think and Grow Rich” the most famous besides.

These secrets have been taught in secret societies (the Freemason, the Brotherwood, the Skull and Bones, the Illuminati and countless others in the world) until now. Napoleon Hill was taught by Andrew Carnegie who belonged to some of these secret societies and was at that time the richest man of the world.

Here is the process

Step 1: Define your dream

Step 2: Get a burning desire for its achievement

This is a mental process, you have to focus all your mind on your dream and get a burning desire and that will make it occur.

First stage to make it work, it must be your first goal for everything you want to achieve, it is the most important thing: number one always the most important, you must always have as a goal to feel good right now.

It is about your emotions, being happy, being content, feeling secure, being confident, feeling grateful, feeling blessed, feeling exhilaration. You have to feel as good as you can right now.

Step 1: Define your dream

You have two options, you can be specific or be general. The third option we have just seen is feeling good right now, all of these options work.

Specific, define very precisely what you want, clearly know what you want. It can be anything. For instance you may say, I want a new car, you can be general I want a Mercedes or you can be specific I want a black S Class Mercedes.

Step 2: Get a burning desire for its achievement

Earl Nightingale said “You become what you think about most of the time”

You get what you think about most of the time. So you have to think about your black Mercedes, what is happening? Your brain is transmitting a frequency of the black Mercedes.

However without a burning desire your dream is not strong enough to make it work. So you must crave for your black Mercedes, you are dying for your black Mercedes. The intensity of the transmission that is coming out of your brain that you are broadcasting is very high, frequent and much more powerful.

Your attitude must be right, you do not have to think about THE HOW. The law of attraction will make it happen, events and circonstances are going to cross your road, and it will create what you want.

The vast majority of what is available is off your radar screen you cannot see it and imagine it. Unfortunately people look at their radar screen. Stop looking at your radar screen.

What you want wants you, the universe will create events and put people in your life to make what you want happen.

You can have anything you want as long as you believe.

Remind you the quote “whatever the mind of men can conceive, and bring itself to believe, it can achieve”.

It stops if you do not believe you can get it, your vibration is no longer powerful. In countless books and seminars about the law of attraction they teach you to get big dreams, “dream big, get your dream bigger”. Nevertheless it does not work at all, it is totally wrong as a result people are disappointed and claim that the law of attraction does not work whatsoever. It cannot work as your dream is too big.

The secret it has to be something you can believe in.

In order to know whether it does work, you must use your feelings as your guide, use your feelings to see if you are lining up, if you are in the sweet spot.

What is the sweet spot?

The desire, the goal, the dream, the objective that you want that will come to you the fastest is a dream that is in the sweet spot. The sweet spot is something you want which you really really want and in the same time you absolutely believe you can get it.

If you have a deep dream about something and you ask yourself what are the beliefs you can achieve this and all of a sudden massive doubt arise into your head, your beliefs crash, your dream is not in the sweet spot.

“Ask and you shall receive” you can see that in many religious texts.

Ask, believe what you ask for and you will receive whatever you ask, that is how it works. Apply that and your dreams will occur, do not forget that your wish is YOUR command.

« Where there is a will there is a way » now talk the talk and walk the walk.

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It has been demonstrated about money that, “five years from now your income is going to be the average of your five best friends”

What does it stand for?

It is a good introduction for the topic today “the power of your environment”. It means that your environment has a great influence on you, on top of that in the long run it happens at the unconscious level. You are not always aware of that, but your friends, your family, your collegues, determine your way of thinking.

If you are always surrounded by billionaires, your way of thinking, your beliefs about money, will be totally different. Therefore, your thoughts and beliefs will change dramatically, then your actions and finally your results and your life.

On the other hand, if you are surrounded by people in needy, your beliefs and your life will not be the same either. It is the reason why, your future income is always influenced by your entourage.

Coaches, specialists in self-development usually say that if you struggle with your life, in business, with money, or whatever field it may be, you have to change your environment.

Nevertheless what is your environment?

Basically it is what you see hear read and experience, but above all people you are surrounded by. The core secret is to mingle with people who have what you want. Then, your thoughts will change and later on your life likewise.

Have you got any goal, any objective?

Mull it over, pick one. Environment is the key, you can implement this method in any realm, learning a foreign language, taking up a new activity, a new project, whatever.

First step, look for like-minded people, who have the same goal as yours, the same state of mind, people very determined and strong-minded, and create the MASTER MIND.

The Master Mind may be defined as: “coordination of knowledge and effort, in a spirit of harmony, between two or more people, for the attainment of a definite purpose”.

Basically it is a bunch of like-minded people who have the same objective and intention. Read one of my previous posts about the Master Mind, called “What to think about network marketing can we really make money?”

“You become what you think about most of the time”, the Master Mind helps your mind focus on your purpose.

Remind yourself some key principles.

So in a nutshell, be surrounded by people who can walk you through your objective. Follow your role model, duplicate his or her attitude, their strategies, what they have already made, copy them.

Everyone who has been successful in life, in sports, music, politic, in any field, has had a mentor, a role model. Leadership is created by leadership, some abilities you have to develop so as to achieve any particular goal.

Good luck with your objective

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New topic today, you want to change your life, change your thoughts first.

“If you continue to think what you always thought you continue to get what you always got”

If nothing changes in your life, it is due to your thoughts, you probably think what you have always thought and your vision of the world is always the same. You have to change your vision, your position, thereby you will see the world differently and things can evolve right away.

How can you do that?

In order to change your thoughts, you must talk to yourself differently, your inner talk is the keystone, in doing so you will ingrain new words therefore new ideas.

Speech patterns are one of the keys, you want to change your life nevertheless you are always used to saying, “it is impossible, I cannot reach that, I am not proficient at this, I am too old” or whatever else, that’s the wrong and the worst thing to do.

Henceforth you must say, “yes I can do that, it is maybe difficult but it is possible, someone has already succeeded in this field therefore I can do it too, anything is possible, I am capable…” these speech patterns will help you change your thoughts thus your life.

Why?

When you talk to yourself, you create new neuro-pathways in your subconscious mind. You can do that without speaking, in your mind, nonetheless research has shown, it is much more effective to speak out loud. Your subconscious mind is fed in a more efficient way by spoken words.

Feeding your subconscious mind is the keystone, Napoleon Hill called that auto-suggestion, you have to use speech patterns as I have mentioned above, but with FEELING and VISUALISING. Feeding your mind will enable you to change your thoughts deeply.

By reading and listening to daily positive statements about your goal, you will be fed consistently and you will finally FEEL and SEE your “new life”. Visualisation is the stepping stone, you have to visualise your goal your dream your success, moreover it is not brain surgery to do that.

Feeling means you feel deeply in your body and know with certainty that you can reach what you have always expected, your gut tells you that you are bound to succeed.

Research carried out about auto-suggestion has shown that it is powerful, provided that you feed your mind as often as you can, repetition is the mother of skill. In doing so you are going to increase your belief, your faith, and you will end up believing more deeply that YOU CAN DO IT.

You probably know the famous Emil Coué formula “Day by day, in every way, I am getting better and better”

However in order to make it work, you must associate these repetitions with emotion and faith. Emotion is created by emotion, your five senses are fed by emotion.

Emotion will make you expand your EMOTION, BELIEF, FAITH, otherwise you cannot influence your subconscious mind which is actually the Emotional Mind.

Take a glance at this article about the mind and our habits.

Obviously, this process must be carried out consistently without giving up (have a look at this post “Never Give Up” it will help you a lot). Persistence is a quality you must get too.

In a nutshell, implement these instructions as if you were a child, increase your belief and your emotions the way children do.

Follow these instructions to the letter, and it will open the way for a complete understanting, your thoughts will evolve and finally your life as well.

Remember that, your marvellous mind (your thoughts) allows you to change everything in your life.

There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge. Both poverty and riches are the offspring of thought.

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Self-confidence is probably the most important thing in life so as to acquire new skills and be successful.

On the whole, we can easily say that everybody on planet earth needs more confidence. What I mean by that, even though you are proficient at something or great in any activity, you can always increase your self-confidence.

It is endless actually, you must work on it all the time in order to make it go through the roof.

As I have already said in several articles success is 80% psychology 20% the mechanics. Psychology is emotion, thoughts, beliefs, attitude, motivation…

So even if you are the best tennis player in the world, psychology is what makes you succeed or not. At that level each champion is more or less as good as the competitor in front of him or her. Neither of them is streets ahead of the other, psychology mainly makes the difference. It is the reason why they all have mental coaches in order to overcome some hurdles, and that really makes the difference.

What is self-confidence?

Self-confidence is a psychology aspect which allows anyone to do something easily, without fear, and without thinking he might fail. High level of self-confidence makes you achieve anything in life, low level of self-confidence makes you probably fail.

How can you acquire self-confidence?

There are two main ways so as to acquire self-confidence. One of them is experience, the other way is mark of gratitude.

Experience

By doing the same action over and over and over again, you will be more and more confident and proficient. I explained that in my article “The four steps of success” (have a look at it). In doing so over and over again you get unconscious competence, things are done automatically, naturally, like your own language, you do not think about it.

You are unconsciously competent, it’s autopilot. If I ask you, can you tie your shoelaces, you bend over and you tie your shoelaces without thinking, you have acquired a high level of self-confidence thanks to experience.

Mark of gratitude

Receiving marks of gratitude, enables anyone to acquire a great deal of self-confidence likewise. Remind you when you were little, if your parents gave you a crowd of signs of recognition, encouragement, their behaviour then have helped you expand your self-confidence, for your entire life.

It turns out to be that during your childhood, if you were used to receiving countless signs of recognition or none of them, as a result your self-confidence today is logically high or low.

In fact, your childhood, your education, your parents, your teachers, your entourage, and so forth have given you the chance to get a great self-confidence or nothing whatsoever. Self-consciousness stems from your childwood and does not help you at all increase your self-confidence.

What can be done in order to expand self-confidence?

First as I have just said, you must develop your “experience”. The more you work on it the better and the faster it is. Do what you have to do in your domain, learn more, follow through and never give up, your self-confidence is bound to step up. Do it on a daily basis and you will soon reap the benefit of it.

Remind you when you first got dressed, or when you first learnt how to go cycling. At first you were not confident at all, you were maybe afraid of doing certain things but step by step your self-confidence increased. Therefore you became confident as well as competent.

In a nutshell, when you do things automatically, you are confident, think it over.

There is a whole slew of things you do automatically, driving home, walking, speaking your own language, eating, plenty of other things, you do not think about it any longer, it is automatic. In doing so over and over again you have built a high level of self-confidence.

Experience means TAKE ACTION right now, even if you are NOT proficient or confident yet. You want to learn a foreign language? Take action, take the plunge, and experience will make skills, proficiency and self-confidence occur all a long, it is how it works.

If you are not confident it stands for you doubt, in order to handle that, you then need more faith and more action:

MORE FAITH AND MORE ACTION  =  MORE COMPETENCE  =  MORE CONFIDENCE

It is called confidence competence loop.

Another powerful technique: use you positive past.

Constantly acknowledge your positive past, it develops high level of confidence. Write down what you have successfully accomplished and you feel as a fulfillment, read it regularly.

Another tip, is knowing what you want and tell others what you want and what you do not want, it is another key. You have to say what you THINK (politely and with diplomacy), assert yourself.

In that way people are going to see you differently, by telling them what you want and what you think, you are going to improve your self-confidence. Above and beyond, self-confidence does beget self-confidence.

I would like to give you some additional useful tools, one of them is your physiology and your posture. Physiology first, if you are in good shape, with a high level of energy you are more likely to succeed.

Energy will make you succeed and acquire confidence likewise, it will give you more positive and powerful emotions, and positive emotions will make you do anything you want with the right attitude (motivation, perseverance, determination, desire…)

Here are some different things you have to implement, and you will get much more confident. Remember that self-confidence is endless, during your entire life you have to enhance it.

We have seen together there are a few simple techniques to do and to apply, it is not rocket science, thus just do it and you will see great results.

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Generally speaking the majority of people thinks that the more you work the more you make money. I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that is totally wrong.

It is common to think that, however it does not function like that.

The most important thing in order to reach your goal is not what you might think at first sight. Firstly you have to set your heart on what you really want to achieve, however the more energy you use does not necessary guarantee your success.

You can find a great deal of examples where some people focus all their energy on a particular goal, unfortunately they never reach their objective.

The key is your thinking, you must think in a positive way as well as you have to visualise your dream, no matter how big your dream is.

Nevertheless why do people who work hard make little money?

If you take massive action, but in a wrong way it can last for months on end without getting any results. Furthermore unlike the majority of people thinks, it is completely possible to earn money without effort or at least with much less effort than you could have thought possible.

I’ll explain how.

We have seen in one of my previous post “the training balance scale” (click here) on one side of the scale it is the thought process, and on the other side it is the actions. The WHY process and the HOW process.

If you don’t have the right thinking you can slog away for ages and not succeeding. As a result you are going to be discouraged, feeling down in the dumps and finally you may be on the brink of giving up what you were eager to get.

Hard work has not helped you reach your goal, thus hard work does not equal money.

Becoming wealthy has nothing to do with a donkey work, it has to do with the right idea, the right beliefs, the right actions. If you reckon that becoming wealthy has to do with intelligence you are on the wrong track.

Einstein was one of the smartest men throughout history even though he was not rich, the cleverest men are not the richest ones. On the other hand the richest are not the smartest, they only apply this simple formula IDEA, BELIEF, ACTIONS, continuously. You have to wipe out these kinds of beliefs which hold you back, some inner limiting beliefs must be eliminated.

Who doesn’t know anyone less smart than ourselves who makes money?

Your « IDEA » has not to be the best idea of the world, but you need one. Then you have to deeply believe in YOUR idea and finally you must take massive action consistently. That is the right approach and it is a far cry from working hard. So many people throughout the world work hard, are snowed under with their work and they dramatically fail however.

Your beliefs make you succeed. The wealthy have worked just during one period of time on their project consistently, and have always believed no matter how big or difficult their dream was, that success would occur one day.

Persistence is critically important likewise, in the main when people do not see results quickly they quit, they give up. Persistence enables you to continue building your project, and what feeds persistence? YOUR BELIEFS again.

When you have a burning desire for something, you CANNOT give up, because your thoughts and your gut tell you that you are on the right track, you know it you feel it. You are completely convinced that one day you will reach your goal.

It is the reason why you must not listen to others who always tell you, your objective is too high, your goal is too difficult, it’s not worth it, do not listen to them.

Although in doing so, most of the time your entourage really does want to help you, nevertheless do not listen to them, follow your dream your desire your intuition.

Remember that if you do not deeply believe in your goal, stop working hard because “hard work does not equal money”.

In order to help you achieve what you yearn for, have a look at my post about “The recipe of success inspired by Tony Robbins” (click here)

Cheers

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