In order to enhance any sort of proficiency in any field some different things must be done.

If you want to make headway you have to work on yourself first. It means that the keynote is your motivation, your will, your desire.

Then when you have made up your mind to begin something new, it is fruitful to implement a proven plan. A proven method will allow you to reach your goal easily.

Do you want to change you life? Do you want to change your destiny and become very successful?

Remember that adage « If you want things in your life to change you are going to have to change things in your life » you have to do things differently, otherwise nothing will crop up.

If you do the same things all the time you will get the same result.

Inspiration and models stem from books.

Leaders are always readers!

You can learn from diverse sources however books are incredibly important, knowledge can be acquired by reading books. You can find out a wealth of information in them. Whatever you like can be easily unearthed by reading books.

People who rule the world read daily, you cannot make a guess at knowledge. There are only two solutions, either someone (a mentor) teaches you or you learn from books. By reading every single day you are going to learn new things, but more importantly you are going to FEED YOUR MIND.

One of the trickiest thing to do when you do want to achieve your objective is to make things differently, because you have used the same habits over and over until now.

NEW OBJECTIVE = NEW ATTITUDE

This new objective forces you to have a new mindset. Feeding your mind with new information is suitable to acquire knowledge but not only. It is worth mentioning that the main point is YOUR MIND.

Your state of mind is going to be a far cry from what it was, your motivation will be increasing because your brain will be fed daily. As you probably know now, your mind is the cockpit. Your mind really does influence all of your decisions, habits, actions, therefore your results.

By feeding it on a daily basis it is conducive without a shadow of a doubt to getting your behaviours changed, it is what leaders do.

I would like also to emphasize another approach which truly works, listening to audios daily.

So as to keep your motivation up as well as to keep your chin up listening to daily audios is critically important and very powerful. If you do that each and every day this will make you change your state of mind and your habits likewise.

Many leaders do that continually nonetheless I would like to pinpoint that it happens more often in America, it is more significant and prevalent in the Anglo-Saxon culture.

You should apply that method daily by listening to cds which deal with motivation, success, personal growth. Your auto sabotages which hold you back will be wiped out, that’s for sure. Your mindset is going to evolve swiftly and radically.

The bottom line is to do what successful people and leaders do. By listening to the same audios daily, Anthony Robbins‘s cds, Kevin Trudeau’s cds for instance, any coaches worth their salt or sought-after speakers in self-development are fine too.

Your way of thinking will change dramatically then your habits and finally your results.

Thereby if you want to change and succeed, do it by reading and listening and you will see grand results.

Ta-ta for now

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What we say is critically important, roughly speaking it stands for, what we say influences our brain and our actions.

What you say is what you get!

What do I mean by that?

The way you speak affects your subconscious mind, you feed it. Your words affect your subconscious mind and your actions are completely influenced by them much more than you might even think possible.

As you are cognisant of that, you must change your vocabulary, you must use the vocabulary of success so as to succeed.

The vocabulary of success is speech patterns, powerful words, positive words, words which will enable you to think, act, and do things differently.

It is worth mentioning first you have to avoid negative words, “I do not want that, I cannot do that, or in questions like, do you not want that, will you not buy that..” . When you use these words you deeply influence your brain negatively, therefore you are NOT persuasive at all and the person in front of you is NOT convinced whatsoever. Thereby do NOT use these words they do more harm than good.

You must NOT use conditional tense because you create a doubt in yourself and within the person you are talking with. Conditional tense strengthens the fact it could not happen, so you create in yourself some bad neuro-pathways. You have to use the present tense, “I want, I decide or I am doing, I am getting…” .

Words such as “I hope, I wish, I try…” (Trying is failure with honour), such words are useless and harmful, you have to say “I can do it, I do it, I win, I succeed, I am going to reach it or I am reaching…”

Words such as “perhaps, maybe, probably, likely …” “I will probably pass my exam, I maybe set up my own business…” they are all ineffective. You must say “certain to, sure to, bound to, there is no room for doubt…” in doing so you wipe out doubts in your mind.

You have to use “I” “I make up my mind, I resolve, I am eager, I am hell-bent on, I crave…” your inner talk is fundamental you have to put your foot down, affirm your will, your longing.

So with “I” you become stronger you know what you want. You reinforce and bolster your willpower and it gives you a much stronger motivation, it is what happens in the brain. This might make it hard for some of you to figure that out, or to believe in that, it might sound weird likewise nonetheless it truly does work.

Research has shown that these « negative » words, expressions, speech patterns have been taking their toll. It has been proved that this way of speaking is doomed to failure and can create mental blocks, in the long run it can also trigger inner limiting beliefs.

Your psychology is completely different depending on your way of speaking.

I strongly believe that it does work, I highly recommend you to implement a new inner talk. Change your vocabulary and you will see new results, do it right away and you will see tremendous outcome.

Cheers

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over the last years the law of attraction has been very popular in western countries, countless books have been written in different languages, a throng of seminars has been created and many conferences have been given as well.

A hype has been made everywhere, as a result a growing number of people has been interested in this topic. As a result a crowd of people have read differents books, in particular « The Secret » by Rhonda Byme and seen the film « The Secret » which stems from that book too, and have attended seminars. It has been the latest fad.

They have tried to make things happen in their life no matter it was about money, health, relationship or anything else. They have hoped that things might appear as if by magic.

Firstly it is worth mentioning what the law of attraction is and how it works.

The law of attraction is a law of the universe which works with your thoughts, what you DO want in life and what you DO NOT want, is drawn to you.

Your brain emits frequencies (positive and negative) and when you focus your mind and your desire on what you do or do not want, the universe makes things happen. This mental attitude works consciously as well as inconsciously.

For instance if you yearn for your soul mate and all day long you tell yourself, « I want my soul mate but I don’t want him to be alcoholic I don’t want him to be violent I don’t want him to be selfish ».

Your brain broadcasts these frequencies, and guess what, you will attract this kind of person, in that case what you do not want.

The law of attraction creates your reality.

To what extent can we say it is a scam?

Actually people who use the law of attraction are not succeeded, why?

Mainly because the great majority thinks about the lack of money, the lack of health, the lack of job… Thus they get what they think about most of the time.

That is to say, what they do not have and what they do not want they get it, the lack of it, the opposite of their wish. It is the reason why people reckon that the law of attraction is a scam.

In reality it is a little bit more complicated, if you are eager to reach any goal by using the law of attraction, you have to apply the right formula.

As a metter of fact whether you believe in the law of attraction or not it always works.

There are some scientific proofs, Albert Einstein said that the universe was made up of energy, everything on planet earth (trees, human beings, cars, houses, montains, any object…) emits a different frequency, called vibration too, everything is energy.

Every atom emits a frequency and passes through anything (water, rocks, wood…) radio waves is on the best example. The human brain according to Albert Einstein and Thomas Edinson is both a transmitter and a receiver of these frequencies. The human brain emits frequencies which are picked up by other human brains.

The law of attraction says whatever frequency you emit that exact same frequency is drawn to you, it is a magnet. The genie is your brain whatever you emit it must come back.

So whatever you desire you have to command with your brain, put all your energy and thoughts on what you really do crave for.

Why people fail?

Because they are too obsessed by the HOW, the skills, the action, whereas they should focus their mind only on THOUGHTS, dreams, desire, attitude, the WHY.

That is the secret of the law of attraction, if you apply that you will see better results.

You have the power to have, be and do anything you want in your life.

In a next post I will be explaining to you more deeply how to apply the law of attraction, the exact things you have to implement to make it work easily.

Ta-ta for now

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